Coming Out to Parents and Friends as Transgender
Since everyone’s gender identity is unique to them, there is no one perfect way to come out. It can be tricky to figure out how to come out, but it is an important step in getting to be yourself.
Our Gender and Sexuality Development Program experts have created this list of resources to help you keep your child safe and well.
Since everyone’s gender identity is unique to them, there is no one perfect way to come out. It can be tricky to figure out how to come out, but it is an important step in getting to be yourself.
Find information about coming out to potential partners, consent, limits and boundaries, and the signs of an unhealthy relationship.
Listen to Dr. Hawkins discuss common developmental stages, gender language, when to refer to a gender specialist, and how providers can talk to both patients and parents about gender and sexuality.
This tool allows patients/families to find LGBT-friendly healthcare providers.
The Out4STEM Internship Program provides Philadelphia’s LGBTQIA youth with healthcare and STEM-oriented instruction, mentorship, academic support, and college/career preparation in an inclusive, safe space. It aims to promote resilience, peer support networks, and diverse educational experiences.
It is always OK to ask for help. Find information about mental health services for transgender youth, crisis hotlines and support groups.
One of the best ways any parent can take care of their child is to take care of themselves. Find information on how to seek mental health services for you and your child.
Once your child comes out to you, you are going to be faced with a lot of decisions, and it is very important to talk to your child about each step that you take with it.
This resource provides information for parents about gender identity, the difference between binary and nonbinary trans people, and what they can do to help their transgender child.
Gender is not binary, but more akin to a spectrum, with “male” and “female” being either endpoint or pole of the spectrum.